Welcome!!! I have decided to take a journey deep into my inner self to discover a deeper sense of peace and maybe even to get some of life's most puzzling questions answered. Feel free to join me on this journey and leave your thoughts...

Showing posts with label Quick Thoughts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Quick Thoughts. Show all posts

Monday, October 31, 2011

Living Your Life

“What is life about?”

As I think about all of the people suffering globally during this economic recession I am reminded of my own pitfalls and sometimes I find myself feeling as if I just don’t measure up. I feel like a lesser version of the self I had planned to be and the self I am capable of being. There’s a part of me that feels like a failure.

But somehow, I know this isn’t the right mindset. Life is not about how much money you have, how much property you own, or who knows and respects your name. It just is… Despite hard times and struggle, I’m still me.

What remains the same? You might lose valued material possessions and you might even go without things you need, but there is still a part of you that is able to find joy, meaning, and hope, because you are the same, human, with or without material things.



“Life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans.” –John Lennon


Sometimes I think about those people who, at the beginning of the current economic crisis, owned their own home, then abruptly lost it due to foreclosure, and are now homeless. Then I have in my mind the stories about visionaries who had that one wonderful idea then became rich! Then I think about all the people in Mexico who dream of coming to the United States with the hope of making a better life for themselves. Then I say to myself that none of it matters.

Whether I am a day laborer in India, a cashier at your local department store, a teller at a bank, or one of the un-named people in Bible stories who roamed around with Jesus and Moses all day, at the end of the day, none of those things are what life is all about.



Life is about living. Living is enjoying the smile on a baby’s face, the aroma of a pretty flower, the soothing sounds of nature, the kindness of a stranger, or the warmth of a friend. It's about taking a moment to lie down in the grass to feel the warmth of the sun on your skin. It's about taking the time to listen to and enjoy complete silence.



Bask in the charm of the night sky. Look up and take into your being, the beauty of the moon and stars. Try to find the Big Dipper/Little Dipper. If it’s too cloudy but there’s a full moon, observe the way the light cuts in and out of the clouds in the night sky. Over time, these marvels of nature have not changed much and you can feel complete knowing that millions who lived before you looked up and saw the same thing. Just remember to breathe it all in. Forget about the madness in your life, the politics of the world, and lay the drama aside. Take a moment for yourself and be engulfed by the darkness, the oneness, and the stillness of nature.

Then sleep. Then wake-up. Then eat. Then work. Then play. But most importantly, live. Your existence on this earth is only fleeting and temporary. When you’re gone, your friends and loved ones will bury you in the ground and say good-bye, forever. Life as you knew it will truly be over. So today while you are alive, be sure to live. Time will keep ticking no matter how much you plan and no matter how much you worry.

So don’t ever lose sight of what LIFE is all about. It is about waking up in the morning and just being alive. We can’t really be sure of what the next month or year will bring or even certain that we will be here among the living. But at the end of the day, if you have food, clothing, shelter, and your health, you’re living a pretty good life.

And should you get sick and become unable to pay your medical bills, then you will eventually die as did billions of people before you. But until that sad day, what you have left is time. It's time to enjoy the rest of the life you have on this earth.



Meditation: Today I am grateful for every little thing, every peaceful moment, every opportunity.

Sunday, September 18, 2011

Trust Issues



If I could find a man I trust...





I would crawl to him

through the desert



on my hands and knees!










But if he asks me

to put a perm in my hair,






I will shake my head

and say, "Negro, please!"









I'm happy to be naturally nappy! :-)

Thursday, May 5, 2011

Quick Thought: Osama Bin Laden's Death

It's madness! Justification for an eye for an eye...celebrating a man's death...what have we become? We are no better than him and his crazy followers! One thing that kills me is how many stories there are about what actually happened to him... ????

And yet I understand why US officials chose to deal with him like that (because I watch Criminal Minds). He was nothing more than a crazy deranged serial killer and sociopath... Giving him a chance to live and speak, etc. would only add fuel to the fire allowing him to get more followers worldwide and incite more people to rage!

What we should be examining: Why is his WAY so appealing to so many? Is it that many crazies in the world? Is it just extremist religion? Well we all know that religion, and how it is expressed, is about people...beliefs guide thought and actions. But no matter what religion says, we all make our own choices. In other words, I'm sure no religion directly says to anyone, "Become a suicide bomber and kill innocent people!"

Whatever happened to Ghandi, Jesus Christ, etc... Peace ppl! Make love not war! <-- :-P JUST kidding! Does making love solve problems...I dunno, go ask a hippie! Lol!

Lets try hard to be rational + compassionate human beings...and just use some good ole fashioned common sense! Let's not act like monkeys. We have a higher calling than that!

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Discrimination Part 2: Rap Music and Skin Color Preference

Black people, lets wake up and stop destroying ourselves! Rappers and others in the Hip Hop music industry have historically been known for skin color bias in their music videos. Now, why is it that rappers think it is okay to specify skin color preference in their songs when they speak about females? "brown skin" "yellow bone" "red bone" ...and u know that they are talking about women who are lighter than a brown paper bag, yet u never hear them say, "My girl is so dark." As a matter of fact, black people know this is a putdown, not a compliment.

So now they have another excuse to disrespect both the light and dark-skinned females. They say that the light-skinned one thinks she's all that and the dark-skinned one has low self-esteem.

And then there was "Becky"...the one that b***p, b***ps... these men don't even respect themselves... If I had children they would never watch TV or listen to the radio! They would be so sheltered! We would be reading books. I would not ...want to teach my children hatred. I don't want them to learn it somewhere else either...especially hating themselves...my little dark-skinned girls watching BET, MTV, Disney, TV One, you name it, and feeling like they just don't measure up because they're too dark...sad and ridiculous...what I call black on black racism.

And major news networks wonder what's wrong with the state of black marriage! Ha! How can you really love someone else when you hate yourself? And black men wonder why black women get attitudes!

Stupidness and Ignorance are tearing our community apart!

Related articles:

Is the Devil Hijacking Black Youth Culture?

"The Light-Skinned vs. Dark-Skinned Battle: Who’s winning it?"

"Skin Color and Hair Texture: A Black Woman's Journey"

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

The Definition of Shame

When I write, I like to throw all of myself into my writing. My first step before I write anything is to determine how I feel deep down inside about the subject matter. This ensures that the message comes from the heart or that it is at least worth the time it takes to write about.

Lately, I am faced with the realization that it is easier for me to write about some topics than others... Just thinking about it, I am scared. I'm not only scared of sharing, journaling, or writing about my thoughts and feelings, but I'm afraid of even really exploring the ideas any further in my own mind. "Uh-oh," I said to myself. You have found a weak spot. You have found territory that you’re afraid to roam...a space that you don’t want to enter. And frankly, I’m a little bit surprised by the extreme emotional reaction of feeling the need to gag myself. That’s not who I am, right? But still, I’m not ready… I'm faced with the inner struggle to be myself.

One thing I can say now, is how oppressed I really am. I’m thinking about making up a new Facebook quiz titled, “How oppressed are you?” No, not really. But seriously, I realize that having to hide and suppress yourself in everyday life can take its toll.

I guess I’m afraid of hearing that I'm wrong...not that my opinion is wrong, but that who I am is wrong. What I think is wrong. What I feel is wrong. Who I am is wrong. That is the definition of shame.

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/shame

noun \ˈshām\
Definition of SHAME
1
a: a painful emotion caused by consciousness of guilt, shortcoming, or impropriety b: the susceptibility to such emotion
2
: a condition of humiliating disgrace or disrepute : ignominy
3
a : something that brings censure or reproach; also : something to be regretted : pity b : a cause of feeling shame